修行 不要放弃另外一半

宝池莲华

<div id="blogDetailDiv" style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"><font size="4"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:51:05</span><wbr><br/>吃晚饭了吗<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 17:51:16</span><wbr><br/>还没有 你呢<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:51:32</span><wbr><br/>没有，就我一人不吃了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 17:52:03</span><wbr><br/>恩 不饿吗<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:52:31</span><wbr><br/>饿了吃水果<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 17:52:46</span><wbr><br/>不错<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:53:03</span><wbr><br/>呵呵，不是我修的好，我不爱吃<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:58:06</span><wbr><br/>我对食，性，财都没有什么兴趣，同事说我活着干啥，言外之意不如死了 呵呵<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:58:51</span><wbr><br/>我也感觉自己好像用处不大了 基本没有什么价值了 呵呵<br/><br/><br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 17:59:04</span><wbr><br/>恭喜你 名食财色睡 地狱<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">5</span><wbr>条根 执着欲乐而不怕将来堕落是智也？愚也？<br/><br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 17:59:59</span><wbr><br/>同事总说我半死不活的<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:01:54</span><wbr><br/>世间法放下一分 与道就相应一分 何乐不为呢<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:03:05</span><wbr><br/>我似乎有些另类了，单位的吃喝基本不参加了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:05:33</span><wbr><br/>多一事实不如少一事<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:05:44</span><wbr><br/>我这样下去 我老公也该找人了 呵呵<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:06:20</span><wbr><br/>而有机缘恒顺下众生 介绍佛法利益大家更好<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:06:35</span><wbr><br/>是不是我也要视而不见<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:06:36</span><wbr><br/>放下不是什么事都不理<br/><br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:06:56</span><wbr><br/>对家庭要特别重视 家庭即是道场<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:07:15</span><wbr><br/>嗯 可我不爱性 觉得他脏<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:08:22</span><wbr><br/>可善巧开导他 让他了解佛法 明白人生真相 既而慢慢学习佛法 同修净业 不是更好么<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:08:57</span><wbr><br/>困难啊，我会善巧方便，努力的<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:10:15</span><wbr><br/>如果你没有恒顺他 慢慢开导善巧帮助 他也就失去一个很好的机缘<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:10:49</span><wbr><br/>他几次得过性病<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:11:05</span><wbr><br/>学佛人以菩提大悲为本 别人尚要帮助 何况自己先生 如此缘分岂可不帮<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:11:18</span><wbr><br/>那时候我们很好呢，现在我觉得他脏啊<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:11:29</span><wbr><br/>其实这些都是业障色欲太重才招此病<br/><br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:11:59</span><wbr><br/>当怜悯之 找机会引导他<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:12:10</span><wbr><br/>是可怜<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:13:31</span><wbr><br/>众生无始以来淫欲习重 而爱欲乃生死根本 非一下子能彻底改变 所以要耐心帮助他<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:13:52</span><wbr><br/>嗯，有道理<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:14:11</span><wbr><br/>真难呢<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:14:34</span><wbr><br/>通过佛法 让他明白清净自性法乐庄严 自然他就会慢慢减少乃至断除淫欲<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:15:18</span><wbr><br/>他听不进去佛经讲座，但不反对我信了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:15:37</span><wbr><br/>邪淫的果报很可怕 多找些因果报应的视频或者资料 找机缘就让他接触<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:15:50</span><wbr><br/>怕他吓跑了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:16:12</span><wbr><br/>至诚念佛忏悔求加持就能转 要深信佛法<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:16:48</span><wbr><br/>嗯<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:16:54</span><wbr><br/>你可发愿为你先生诵地藏经消除宿业自然能如你所愿<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:17:13</span><wbr><br/>哦<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:17:34</span><wbr><br/>我还从没有诵地藏经了<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:17:40</span><wbr><br/>就持佛号了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:18:03</span><wbr><br/>也好 至诚必有感通 佛号功德不可思议<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:20:10</span><wbr><br/>普门品云 若有众生多于淫欲 常念恭敬观世音菩萨 便得离欲 念佛也如此<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:19:10</span><wbr><br/>嗯，我在练习呼吸念佛，没有练好<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:20:08</span><wbr><br/>最近还不如从前呢<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:20:19</span><wbr><br/>感觉都退步了<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:20:29</span><wbr><br/>那就按照之前的念佛方法吧<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:20:38</span><wbr><br/>好的<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:22:29</span><wbr><br/>大势至菩萨念佛圆通章云 都摄六根净念相继 此念佛之根本方法 当依此而修<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:22:54</span><wbr><br/>道理懂做的不好<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:25:00</span><wbr><br/>须知夫妇乃多生之因缘 今生能结夫妻皆甚深之缘分 宜发菩提心 为其念佛忏悔 让你先生早日业障消除善根增长 则道业世法家庭具得利益 不可因其前嫌而有弃舍之心 违菩提心故<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:26:05</span><wbr><br/>嗯，就按您说的做<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:26:40</span><wbr><br/>念佛不要急噪 当调整气息 念从心起 声从口出 音从耳入再印于心 又念佛当万缘放下 作往生想 自然功夫日纯 久久欲其不相应也难<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:26:47</span><wbr><br/>曾有放弃他的想法，惭愧<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:27:53</span><wbr><br/>如来为度众生 不惜多劫劳苦 自己丈夫安可不理 若是放弃则还是凡夫情见与道不符<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:28:14</span><wbr><br/>谢谢您<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:28:28</span><wbr><br/>是啊<br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:29:07</span><wbr><br/>连自己丈夫都不慈悲<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:29:08</span><wbr><br/>深信佛力法力自己心力 发愿至诚念佛必然能解决你这些苦恼 菩提尚可得何况这些小事 呵呵<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:29:49</span><wbr><br/>嗯，　是的　谢谢您<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:31:01</span><wbr><br/>不谢 祝福你早日夫妻和谐 同修净业共作莲友 齐预莲池海会<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:31:34</span><wbr><br/>我会努力善巧开导<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:31:58</span><wbr><br/>南无阿弥陀佛<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:32:09</span><wbr><br/><br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:32:34</span><wbr><br/>这个对话也许能对一些有缘有所启发 能否放在末学博客 让更多同修可以探讨呢<br/><br/><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">... 18:32:44</span><wbr><br/>好的<br/>寶池蓮華<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'"> 18:32:54</span><wbr><br/>随喜你的功德 </font><!--v:3.2--></div>

寻道

<p><font color="#003366" size="5"><strong>看了师兄的对话内容，末学也是身有体会：</strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#003366" size="5"><strong>学佛的确能够化解家庭矛盾！</strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#003366" size="5"><strong>南无阿弥陀佛！南无地藏王菩萨！南无观世菩萨！</strong></font></p>

宝池莲华

<font color="#003366" size="5"><strong>南无阿弥陀佛</strong></font>